I have looked and seen one phenomena under the sun. Its reality is one that is alien to many but that does not change that it remains a fact.
You see a man walking on the road, in his head are a million and one scenarios playing like a VHS tape in an ancient player. Life throws at anyone scenarios that make each one of us make choices. These choices some are for a lifetime, some are distractions and some are I must say sadly agents from the dark world meant to stop you from reaching the goals of your life because they are just too dangerous for the survival of wickedness on the surface of the earth.
I will give a very delicate example. Boy meets girl.That is an easy one right? It gets complicated though like the plot of any good story. So Boy meets girl. Boy falls in love with girl. Girl falls in love with boy. Boy wants to marry girl. Girl accepts to get married to boy. Other girls notice that boy is good and are losing him. Other boys notice that girl is beautiful and they have not tasted the cookie jar. Girl gets confused by these flirtatious heaven promising boys. Boy sees better options in these easy going vision destroyers in shorter skirts than girl.
I have chewed words with elders and yes they confirm this scenario but they add a word of wisdom to it. If you don’t focus young man you will lose your one key to great life and you will regret it the rest of your life.
I have off late grown a very sharp resentment to people who I describe as out rightly disrespectful. I am talking about these girls and these boys. They know you are trying to build a life. In their heart of hearts they know boy or girl is nowhere in their future. Their goal is just to destroy to confuse, to come in between. They are happy when they hear boy and girl are having issues. They want to know details so they pry on them I just don’t like them.
Now it becomes even more sad when these boys or these girls actually are a boy in love with a girl in love somewhere else. I mean just respect your life enough to be serious about it mmh! I get amazed. This is a generation which expects life to throw fairness at them while being totally the opposite in other people’s lives. This is generation which expects stable families while tossing around with other people’s families. Honestly I just don’t like you.
It becomes so hypocritical when they are the same people greeting you loudly across corridors, giving you those smiles and a laughter that honestly is uncalled for, shaking your hands with a vigor that bespeaks of their randy rendezvous. Only one statement befits you, ‘get thee behind me devil.’ If I were Moses I would order the ground to open up and swallow your breath out of your God forsaken lungs. If I were Elisha I would order all the bears on earth to really work on you. If I were Samson I would gather all the foxes in the world tie electric shockers on their tails and descend them on you. Yes I have looked and seen that this is the one thing that destroys families, destroys futures and puts to death every good thing on earth. In the good book the big man would put it this way… Do not covet.